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Unveiling the Truth Behind Setting Goals: Are New Year's Resolutions Overrated?

Updated: Jan 1



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Taking the initiative to get outdoors.

As the New Year rolls in, many of us are swept up in the tradition of setting ambitious resolutions or goals. However, as the months pass, the initial excitement often dwindles, leaving us to wonder: are these New Year's goals truly effective or just overrated?


The hype and reality of New Year's Goals is undeniable, but their success rate often falls short. Research suggests that around 80% of resolutions fail by February, highlighting the struggle in achieving this annual aspiration. Why does this happen?



Challenges in Goal Achievement

One primary reason for the difficulty in meeting New Year's goals is the lack of specificity and realism. Setting vague or overly ambitious objectives without a clear plan can set us up for failure. Moreover, life's unpredictability and the absence of a structured approach can derail our progress.


Successful goal achievement isn't merely about setting objectives but establishing systems and


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Make your goals visable.

setting smaller goals. Implementing specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals helps us focus on tangible steps. Systems create routines and habits, paving the way for sustainable progress rather than short-lived bursts of motivation. You can learn more about setting SMART goals here.




Systems are the backbone of consistency and progress. They involve breaking down larger goals into smaller, manageable tasks, creating a roadmap towards success. A systematic approach enhances accountability and fosters continuous improvement. For example, if I want to work out 3x's a week. My system may involve setting up digital reminders, preparing 3 outfits in advance, and exercising with a friend during my scheduled time.


Celebrating Progress and Support

Amidst the pursuit of goals, celebrating milestones is crucial. Recognizing even the smallest victories fuels motivation and sustains momentum. Additionally, seeking support from friends, family, or a community can provide encouragement, guidance, and accountability.




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Journaling & repeating affirmations is key.

The Importance of Self-Encouragement: Self-affirmation plays a pivotal role in goal attainment. Positive self-talk and affirmations bolster confidence and resilience, helping navigate setbacks and challenges along the way. Reminding ourselves of our capability's fuels determination and perseverance.


In conclusion, while New Year's goals may seem overrated due to their high failure rate, the issue lies not in the concept but in the execution. By shifting the focus from setting mere goals to establishing systems, following the SMART criteria, celebrating progress, seeking support, and practicing self-encouragement, we can drastically improve our chances of achieving our aspirations. Let's approach our New Year's goals not just as yearly resolutions but as lifelong commitments toward personal growth and fulfillment.


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Jenny Gaston, MS, LPC, NCC

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I don’t think I realized goals were failing by 80 % that quickly. Good Lord! But I think this is coming at it from the right approach. Often people are not writing goals effectively and they’re lofty and nebulous which makes them something set up to fail either way

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